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The Warring Brain- Part 3
Being emotionally hijacked in common and natural for humans. In our important relationships it is destructive and can be deadly (to the emotional connection) we so need for healthy life. The Brain is not our friend when it comes to relationships. we must be aware and take time to pay attention to how we respond to the important people in our lives. If your spouse sometimes “becomes the enemy” in an argument, this video will help to explain and retrain your brain. please watch the first two episodes if you missed them. Check out...
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The Mindful Marriage Series Continues Chapter 2 shows one reasons that the Brain is better suited for war than love- the episode describes that amygdala hijack- when the brain’s alarm takes over the drivers seat- even to our relationships detriment.
read moreThe Mindful Marriage-#2- The Warring Brain-part 1
You Brain is Not Your Friend When it Comes to Relationships!
read moreBeing in a Mindful Marriage- Part 4: Being Curious
The Mindful Marriage Vlog Are you curious about your partner or do you know everything about them? To See Video #1 in this Chapter Click Here To See Video #2 in this Chapter Click Here To See Video #3 in this Chapter, Click...
read moreBeing in A Mindful Marriage-Part 3: Seeing
The Mindful Marriage Video Blog Chapter- 1 Part 3- Seeing
read moreBeing in a Mindful Marriage-Part 2: Doing
The Mindful Marriage Vlog Post #2 Is there a lack of doing in your relationship? Check out the Part 1- click...
read moreBeing in a Mindful Marriage- Part 1: Your Mind
Check out the first video in my new Mindful Marriage Vlog!
read moreThe Mindful Marriage is Coming!
In just a few days I will launch The Mindful Marriage video series. I started planning this Vlog months ago with the help of Adam Anderson at Convergence LLC (The Digital Division). After months of testng and redos, I finally have the look and feel that I want. (I used to be a photographer so quality is very important to me). Getting all the ducks in a row hase been difficult but the launch is now in site (pun intended). Thursday September 1st! This video is a short promo- subscribe to feeds or email notifications on the...
read moreFix My Wife, Please!
Fix My Wife, Please! 95% of the time, when I sit across the room from a couple in marriage counseling, each of them is asking me, in one way or another, to fix their partner. Yet, the fact is that 99% of the time there is no one to blame. What is the old saying, one finger points at me, three point back at you? If you are looking at your partner as the problem, you are most likely looking in the wrong place!! Why do we blame each other so readily? The main reason is that we, as a culture, maybe as a race, are not good at taking...
read moreSingle and Dating a Married Man
I was at the bookstore some time back, standing in the self -help/relationship section (yes, we psychologists read these books too) when an interesting thing happened. A young, very attractive woman walked up with her friend. She was loudly talking about the type of book she was looking for, one to help with her problem of course. Her problem, she was telling her friend, was her boyfriend, he just wouldn’t leave his wife. Now this woman was attractive and I could tell that she was intelligent by the way she talked. Well, at least she was...
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